In life , people tend to wait for good things to come to them .
And by waiting , they miss out . Usually , what you wish for
doesn't fall in your lap , it falls somewhere nearby , and you
have to recognize it , stand up , and put in the time and work
it takes to get it . This isn't because the universe is cruel .
It's because the universe is smart . It has it own cat-string theory
and knows we don't appreciate things that fall into our laps .